If I were in a slasher flick, I'd be the first person to die: not because I'm incompetent, or I've transgressed, but because I probably snuck into the haunted house to bone and was too busy to notice the guy with the knife. If i have a kink, my kink is [B]“mischief.”[/B] What does that mean? Well, it’s not easily described but if pressed I’d say it’s a pointed breaking of the rules. First you figure out which rules are basically codified manners: prescribed lifestyle value judgements which don’t keep people safe from anything other than embarrassment. Then you have at them in a way that exposes that it was silly for them to exist in the first place.

La mia persona ideale: Craves adventure in a way that is not the banal way that people often mean on the internet.

Possesses and a fire that takes over in a way that might intimidate someone else.

Is able to assess and hold their own boundaries, but is also aware of which of those boundaries that they would like to push.

Is not passive in seeking and finding the things that they want.