Isn't Sex so much better when you've gotten to know that person as a Friend! And if you're fully vaccinated we might actually get together. I am serious and hope that there are a few local, attractive, mature men on this site who are interested in something more than a blo-n-go. I am happily married. But, I am also out to my wife. That happened during the summer of 2008 but it turns out it was the best thing for our relationship. We're very much in love and we're both highly sexual. Although we've talked about it I have never really felt the need to experience swapping because I'm not looking for another woman. My wife is a beautiful, tall, intelligent, multi-orgasmic, oversexed blond, and everything I want in a woman. Our marriage would be considered open, but she hasn't participated directly in anything I've done with another man other than being the photographer on occasion. Just to be clear she does not join in with me sexually. No MFM. I've fantasized about being with men for over 40 years and never took the leap, until I came out to my wife in 2008. I'm a bit of a romantic. I want candlelight, good music, a great bottle of wine and lots of foreplay. Yes that includes kissing. I find it strange that a man will let you put your cock in his mouth but doesn't want to kiss. I guess I want to be with a man the same way I would be with a woman and foreplay is a big part of it. It's just that I want to feel a mans body, the tightness of muscle, hair on the chest, no hair on important parts, and the cock, Oh the cock. On that subject I'm tested regularly always HIV Negative. I have a great situation for hosting with the right guy. We own a small ranch out among the vineyards on the Central Coast. It's very rural with a great view and a comfortable guesthouse situation for hosting. Any need for discretion is taken care of out here. I'm a pretty normal guy, very straight on the surface. I am 5' 10" and 6" cut. Sexually I'd consider myself versatile although as you can see in a few of my pictures I enjoy having my lover on top. Speaking of pictures you can always see current pictures of me in my albums. And I have several more erotic images in albums for Friends Only. On the subject of pictures please have at least one fairly recent pictures available. It's so frustrating to get interested in a man based on his profile pictures and then meet for a drink and find that those pictures were 10 or 20 years old. I'm guilty of it but I do have an album of photos that show age progression. I'm very willing to send you a picture taken the same day, just ask. I am a bit of an exhibitionist and love being photographed, particularly with another man. Perhaps even a video. Interested? I've also recently become interested in Tantra massage which would hopefully evolve into Tantra Sex. I do have a massage table. If you've read this far hopefully you realize that I'm serious about finding someone as serious as I am about having an ongoing friendship and sexual relationship. Please don't contact me if that's not what your looking for. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\***WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have done or plan to do so, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. ***WARNING

Mi persona ideal: As I said, I am serious about finding a local guy as both a friend and fuck buddy. I'd love to meet a guy that I could be with on a regular basis. Has the ability to host as well so that we can meet here and there, and doesn't need to fly out the door 5 minutes after orgasm. It would be nice to go out to dinner or even do a road trip occasionally.

I have minimal expectations, generally the same ones I have for myself. I do quite a bit to keep reasonably fit considering my age. I'm looking for someone not taller than 6 ft, also reasonably fit and height weight proportionate. Older is preferred. An average body and appearance is great, but MUST BE CUT, sorry just the way I'm wired. Prefer no facial hair, and definitely no smokers. Like I said I love to kiss and the taste of an ashtray doesn't do it for me. Have a personality, sense of humor, and the ability to carry a conversation. Oh, and someone who wants to spend long naked hours together.....

A Note to Married Men or those in a strong relationship. While I'm not opposed to married men I really don't want to waste a lot of time working towards something that will never happen. I'm only interested if you're someone without real restrictions. I really don't like quickies with spousal tension. If you can't at least spend a relaxed evening together drinking wine and making love then I'm not interested.