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usinghimhard 47 / 47 / C
"Working on our sexual bucket list....."
Sacramento, California, United States
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usinghimhard 47/C
Sacramento, California
looking for a mini gangbang ideally with both sexes and bi friendly
Mainly looking for anyone interested in the male half of this couple. She will join from time to time but she wants people to enjoy using me as they want and for me to video it for her Life is to short to be denied the pleasures of the flesh. There is almost nothing that we're not willing to try at least once because you don't know if you're going to like something otherwise. We are clean, very open minded and want to explore every possibility of what feels good weather it’s together or solo

My Ideal Person Looking for anyone who's open minded enough to explore our wildest desires with. I want to try almost everything, casual sex to sub/dom to role reversal and cuckold and almost everything in between. She's bi snd , I’m poly Open to whatever, no strings or hang ups. Just everyone having fun. If you've got some ideas we'd love to hear then and maybe make them happen...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Massage, Face sitting (ANYTIME, ANYWHERE

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 47/47 / Couple (man/woman)
  • Sacramento, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-sexual / Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women), Couples (2 men) or Trans
Marital Status: Single
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: Happy with what we have
Our Trophy Case:
Birthdate: August 8, 1975 May 25, 1975
Relocate?: No No
Height: 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm 5 ft 4 in
Body Type: Average Ample
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs I don't use drugs
Education: Associate degree (2 years college) Prefer not to say
Occupation: Placer County Prefer not to say
Race: Caucasian Caucasian
Religion: Other Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Long/Average N/A
Circumcised: Yes N/A
Bra Size: N/A D
Hair Color: Hair? What Hair? Red/Auburn
Hair Length: Bald Long
Eye Color: Hazel Prefer not to say
Glasses or Contacts: None None