Him: experienced in the lifestyle, focused on her pleasure and any other ladies he plays with, a gentleman, knowledgeable in female anatomy and pleasure zones, enjoys oral, soft touching, eye contact. Her: new to the lifestyle but adding experience(s) very quickly, no longer bi-curious (definitely bi), when in the right mood and the right buttons are pushed is multi-orgasmic, insatiable, and prolific squirter. Even as a newbie, she is anything but timid. Enjoyed limited play with other females so far, and is more than ready for the full girl/girl experience. Grab on for the ride and see if you can keep up!! We are social drinkers and non-smokers. Older in age and body, but young in mind and spirit. If attitude and sexuality is a bigger turn on for you than just physical appearance, we are good candidates for play partners.

My Ideal Person We are fairly new to the lifestyle as a couple, and are enjoying each step of the journey so far. We have attended several house parties and had a great time. Next step is to try a more intimate setting with another couple. Ideal match would include couple with a bi female that enjoys good conversation over a glass of wine, that we quickly feel comfortable with, have mutual attraction levels, and that are understanding that we are still in discovery mode. First time together could include soft swap, full swap, etc. Only limited by our imagination and comfort level at the time.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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