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tramontane1984 38 / M
"Looking for NSA fun"
Utrecht, Netherlands
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tramontane1984 38/M
Utrecht, Utrecht , Netherlands
After some time on this site with frustration communication in general, I feel like it's time to re-write this. So here goes: In the decreasing order of interest I'm here looking for 1. Women including T All shapes, colors, sizes, ages are considered. I don't have a type but on an individual basis I feel attraction or not. I care more about what you have in mind than what you look like. 2. Couples with bi M I am bi-curious but very specifically in the context of a MF couple. If you are an MF couple, where the M is bi and you feel like we might click, definitely send a message. 3. Couples with straight M I would very much like to join a couple where the center of attention is the woman and help you spice things up. I am a good communicator and I will always respect boundaries. 4. Bottom Ms I'm writing this here and I know it will cause more messages in my inbox then I can handle (because men send messages even when you don't list them as an interest) but here's the catch. Unlike other items on this list, I do have a type in men. It turns out (I'm just figuring this out as I go) I have a strong preference for extremely hairless (not talking about the hair on top of your head) men that are around my age or younger. A round, hairless ass goes a long way in picking up my attention. I apologize if you're not fitting this description, it's just "the d**k wants what the d**k wants" type of situation. Alright. Now, I'm not the prettiest guy on earth but I decided to list some preferences here to save some time for those handful of people who will choose to get in touch with me. If you'd like to get a response, use the regular messaging function or the famous messaging app everyone here uses. I have the same username there. As of now, I will not respond to IMs on this site because IM is frustrating. If you send me an IM, I'll know that you haven't bothered to read this profile and I'll absolutely ignore you. About me: I don't like crowds, parties, etc... but I do love an engaging discussion on most topics. Discretion is very important and I am not looking into complicated relationships. I cannot host but I can drive to you. My schedule changes a lot and I do some travel for work so if you reach out to me and try to get together within hours, it is near impossible. I also prefer to get to know you a little bit before all else. I believe I am a good partner for having some no-strings-attached fun be it once or a regular thing. Race and age are irrelevant as long as there is mutual interest. Attitude is sexier than measurements. I am generally fairly open-minded :) Ask me anything and I'll do my best to give an honest answer. Thanks for reading! Adam

My Ideal Person Someone (or a couple) up for NSA fun. I'd love to have a regular thing with someone I match with but irregular/one time encounters are also ok.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 38 / male
  • Utrecht, Netherlands
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women), Couples (2 men) or Trans
Birthdate: January 1, 1984
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Married
Height: 187-190 cm
Body Type: A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: PhD/MD/Post doctorate
Race: Prefer not to say
Religion: Atheist
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Long/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Black
Hair Length: Long
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: None