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testerami 51 / M
"Regular guy, down to earth, educated, wanderlust"
Durham, North Carolina, United States
 
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testerami 51/M
Durham, North Carolina
Visiting Germany and possibly Colombia this year!
Introduction
Looking for like-minded friends, travel partners, possible meet-ups, intelligent conversation. I'm a normal, laid-back, open-minded, respectful guy, naturally curious about all kinds of stuff, love to learn, professional, educated, and down to earth. I love to travel, meet new people and learn/experience new things. I'm looking to meet new friends with similar interests, and hopefully play/explore a bit. I like to chat and share and get to know people, and fwb is always a plus. (It doesn't have to be sexual.) I love getting to know new or different cultures and soaking in beautiful things. Fully vaccinated for covid. Can't wait for covid to end .. going back to Europe, Asia, and South America are on the short list. Looking to meet some new friends with similar interests at random destinations, too. I love learning about different people and cultures and I enjoy sharing my own. Happily married to an awesome woman for quite a while now .. our only incompatibility is libido, and so we have a mutual arrangement... she's not part of the deal, and I'm not at all looking to change what I've got. Clean, selective, safe, ddf, nonsmoker, light casual drinker and I usually have to get to know someone before I get intimate. I'm even-keeled, well mannered, open minded, sapiosexual. also on protonmail, same person

My Ideal Person Basically looking to meet other easy-going people with similar interests. Intelligence is always good and an interest in travel and conversation of course. I don't really care about race. I also don't care where you are in the world... in fact you might just be the perfect reason to visit someplace new in the world! Please don't be married unless you have a similar arrangement.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 51 / male
  • Durham, North Carolina, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women), Couples (2 men) or Trans
Birthdate: May 3, 1972
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Married
Height: 5 ft 8 in / 172-175 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Software Engineer
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: No
Speaks: English, BasicGermanandFrench.
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: None
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