Just a "normal" type guy looking for friends/buddies first: sex is a bonus if things go that way. I like to be able to care about people, at least a little bit: sex isn't only a physical thing. The most important sex organ is the brain. I call myself bisexual, so I can be either 'gay' or 'straight,' depending on who you are, but in the final analysis those things are all just labels and I am just me. All my photos here on this site are over a decade old now, and I am not updating them, so know that I am older and slower than what you see, with longer hair.

Min Idealperson Setting ideals is OK but I really enjoy different types of people. Having said that, I am somewhat discerning and discriminating: --and a bit shy, so don't be afraid to make a gentle advance toward me and see what happens.