scc1965 56 / M
"Secret Lover Wanted"
Cedar rapids, Iowa, United States
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scc1965 56/M
Cedar rapids, Iowa
I want to play
Looking for a salacious, uninhibited, discreet woman for NSA FWB fun. I am a guy next door type that isn't having his needs fulfilled at home. I am just looking for a playmate to meet on occasion to have some fun and blow off some steam. Need to be totally discreet. . I am a ddf clean semi professional type man that hasn't given up on life. I have had some great experiences in the past....and looking for more. I am easy going and cautious , not a bed post notcher.I only have 1 playmate at a time. I like to think women still find me attractive..although I am not as fit as I was in my 30s, but I am fairly fit for 50's. lol I'm not too positive about finding the ideal playmate here...but I am going to keep looking.....and trying....

My Ideal Person I'd prefer a single woman that isn't looking for a relationship other than a fwb. I tend to like average/voluptuous women with assets. A pretty face and smile is a turn on. I also am addicted to women that HOT!!
I am not opposed to meeting a married woman, but don't do drama. I may be interested in a cuckhold, I have been reading about it and it intrigues me. Well , maybe not...there are some really unfriendly people on here. People that want to judge.....I am not perfect and I don't think anyone here is either. We are all broken to some regard. You do your thing and I will do mine.
BTW I am not bi or even bi curious . GOT IT?! I am ddf and plan on staying that way. I am picky and not desperate... so taking my time and by no means am I in any rush. I have confidence I will find the right situation.
WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 56 / male
  • Cedar rapids, Iowa, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman) or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: September 25, 1965
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Married
Height: Prefer not to say
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Associate degree (2 years college)
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Christian
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
My Trophy Case: