Don't use this account much anymore since I am in a wonderful committed relationship. You can find our couple profile on lafingalthex :) \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\****I do have a regular play partner that might be interested in another female or couple joining us if the chemistry is right. She is a bi redhead filled with spunk and laughter and a lot of fun. If interested let me know and I'll let you know her screen name**** I'm looking for friendship before anything else, with benefits if we click. With that being said I wouldn't rule out a night of passion with the right lady or couple. I'm in fairly decent shape and have a youthful, yet mature, way at looking at life. I think you are as old as you feel you are and I'm still quite at home going to some concerts most my age have lost the energy for. However, I'm also quite at ease taking things easy and relaxing over a beer while we watch the sun go down. I'm straight but not homophobic and very much enjoy being the 3rd for a couple. I also have no problem at all being watched while the lady and I have some one on one fun. I very much understand my role as a 3rd and know that respect for the wants and desires of everyone involved is most important. I enjoy going to the movies, good conversation over dinner, going to shows, hiking, sporting events and experiencing new things. I'm a pretty laid back guy who is always respectful of those I'm around. Normally pretty energetic and I love to see new people and places. I've had enough drama in my life and prefer to stay away from it as much as possible. Life is too short to be worried about things all the time after all. FYI, this was written by my ex before we separated. I don't talk about myself in the third per :) Him- shaved head, brilliant green eyes, 5'11, athletic/average build, one tattoo, soft hands and lips, gives great oral, very attentive and sensual, can last all night long or give you a quick thrill; whatever YOU want. He's well equipped and knows how to use it. Willing to do whatever you ask; he'll do what it takes to make sure YOU are 100% satisfied, and then do 100% more. He's very straight.

My Ideal Person couples & single females for play. I've been involved in an open relationship for the last several years but I'm now the..doh!!!! single male!!! However, I believe my experience from both as the 3rd being introduced to the couple and as the husband having his wife go play on her own gives me an added perspective that others might not have. By no means am I simply looking for an open couple that would do me the honor of helping please a lady. I'm also very much interested in having a partner for going out and having a bit of fun on the town, on the trails, at the concerts...or wherever the day/night might take us.

Also, as I stated above, another female or couple with a bi curious lady could be a good fit for my regular play partner

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Primus, Pink Floyd, Rob Zombie, Tool, Depeche Mode, Static
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What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Angelina Jolie, Kari from mythbuster's, Pauley Perrette
(abby from NCIS)

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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