Its been quite some time since I have been on this site, I last updated it when I had just moved to Cte but that was almost three ago now. I needed a break from here because I wasnt seeing anything or getting any results so I took a break. Im here again to see what has changed. I also needed time to evaluate myself and examine what is important to me. As I reached the age of 40 this past year, I realize that the simple things are most important and though love and relationships have always been a desire for me at this stage of my life Im just looking to surround myself with positive, motivated people that I share the same interests with to spend my time with. I am open to a relationship but I dont want to rush anything. I have always believed that relationships come and go but true friendship lasts a lifetime and I want my mate to be my best friend and confidant. Someone that I know will always have my back.

My Ideal Person I am seeking someone who is honest and outgoing and likes to live life to its fullest. I do have to be attracted to you if I'm gonna have sex with you, otherwise we can just still be friends. I like things to be different all the time so if you cannot spice it up don't bother. Also understand that I am a nice guy and will always treat you with respect. If that is not what you want then move on, I am not the one for you.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I am doing it in church inside the confession chamber while
service is going on.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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