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rm_pandedaddy 61 / M
"Softly, slowly, smoothly sinful.. men are like wine - the older, the better.. age is only a number"
Gurgaon, Haryana, India
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rm_pandedaddy 61/M
Gurgaon, Haryana , India
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi ce soir?
I'm a well groomed, well educated, well spoken and well-to-do professional.. looking for a few good, intimate relationships with any partner I can warm up to and trust to be discreet. I believe anything can happen, with anybody.. hold no preconceived notions. I'm open to long term friendship, discreet affairs and casual encounters as well.. but safety first and no strings attached, no egos, no power games... and no paid sex, or it's various forms. A positive attitude, cultural sensitivity, honesty, openness and simple courtesies work with me.. crass, pompous, arrogance and selfish does not. I place a premium on trust and elegance.. which is as rare as true identities on this site.. I am warm, generous, loyal, witty, playful, humble and active... work hard n play hard, an all-or-nothing attitude, but with elegance. Travelling, dining, partying, fashion, music, movies, driving out, chilling at home, sports, playing with s.. a variety of stuff works for me... I am easy to get along with & can vibe on several frequencies at the same time, but constant and comfortable with myself inside... traits that I admire in partners as well. My private life is very private. I'm not the wham-bam-thank-you-ma'm type.. if you're looking for a quick 7+ inch jackhammer for hard and fast drill-n-fill, well.. I choose not to oblige.. you're better off with the dick-pic profiles on this site :-h I'd love to respect, pamper and spoil the girl of my desire in return for the respect, pleasure and delight she gives me... ah! but that's what I'm here to explore! Age, colour, religion and looks no bar. It's a good balance of mind and body that I find attractive. I'm not perfect and neither am I looking for perfection. Physically, I am clean, fit, hairless, good looking, somewhat fair and adequately endowed, with nothing extraordinary or less than normal. I don't have any health issues or infections. i'd like to keep it that way. "We don’t stop playing because we grow old," George Bernard Shaw said. "We grow old because we stop playing.".. never leave the playground:X So try me... you might be surprised.. and surprise me in return - I'd love it. My Rules: 1. I'm for real-life encounters, not online voyeurism - so phone or pic sharing, or CAM or sex-chats don't work for me. Would like a friendly chat first - but only as an exercise to decide whether we are compatible enough and ready for a real life encounter. 2. Don't share peral information online. I don't ask for it and neither do I provide any. For me safety and security is top-most priority. 3. Everything about me is fair play and two-way. So don't play manipulative games, like trying to extract money, 'gifts', pictures or mobile number, or carrying on endless sex-chats under the pretext of friendship. Peral information exchange, if any, has to be SIMULTANEOUS, i.e. on cam or actual meeting. Sharing still pics can happen AFTER that. 4. No face pics, cam, mobile no. etc unless we both reach a stage (through chatting, email, etc) where we feel comfortable with each other and wish to meet... then, and only then, does sharing peral info with each other make sense. :D:D: 5. Everything shared is confidential and privileged information. No details or part-details of our contact, communication, content or exchanges may be shared with any third party, for whatever rea.

My Ideal Person For me sex is all in the mind. No rules, but sapiosexual is great. So if you are clear about who you are and what you want, have a reasonable mind-body balance, elegant and have the guts to make matching choices, then you are daddy's li'l girl.

Good education is a big plus, though not mandatory, but please, please try to communicate clearly. If you can challenge me with your intellect, attitude and gutsy choices.. well, nothing turns me on more, especially if you also have a reasonably fit body and a certain way of moving that goes with it...

I believe we get 90% of what we want to know about each other only after physical face-to-face meeting; and actually seeing each other in person and hearing, watching each other talk and walk. So I prefer partners who are willing to spare time and effort to meet and socialize while we let sex happen as a natural outcome of building mutual desire.

I fantasize about partners who are independent, witty, knowledgeable, candid, loving, sensuous, playful, seductive, athletic, active and passionate... with a sparkling personality and without hang-ups... partners who have a good balance of work, party, food and sex in their lives.. and perhaps some cute pillow talk to go with it.. but, you don't have to be ideal.. a happy life is full of compromise and who knows, you could just be it..

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Deflowering young female colleagues in office on the eve
of their marriage.. then make her pregnant

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No.. they don't turn me on

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 61 / male
  • Gurgaon, Haryana, India
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: May 3, 1961
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Separated
Height: 162-165 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Master's degree
Occupation: Professional
Race: East Indian
Religion: Hindu
Have Children: Yes. We sometimes live together.
Want Children: Maybe
Male Endowment: Prefer not to say/Prefer not to say
Circumcised: Prefer not to say
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Salt and Pepper
Hair Length: Crewcut
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: None