A mature male who served honorably in the military and successfully in business. I enjoy challenging projects and am interested in aviation. I am in good physical condition and work out at least three times a week. I enjoy romantic evenings, a good dinner, a movie, relaxing on the sofa. I also enjoy making love and am looking for a woman who is comfortable with her own sexuality and isn't shy about asking i encourage my partners to tell me what they like in the bedroom. I love sex, but I'm not looking for long term relationships. I was married for many years to a woman who really didn't enjoy sex. I tried to make it work, but she just wasn't interested. So, I know I have missed out and I am hoping to make up for what I missed. So, I am pretty open to almost anything. In the bedroom, I tend to to be straight forward. I enjoy many sexual positions but prefer missionary and deep stick. But, I cater to may partners needs first and foremost. Consequently, I also like a variety of positions if that is what my partner desires. >>! However, I stay away from the more extreme positions. And it is not uncommon for me to slow down the pace or stop and spend more time with foreplay and making sure my partner is enjoying herself before proceeding to a climax.

My Ideal Person I'm straight and not interested in exploring sex with another man.

I'm looking for someone who can be discreet because extramarital affairs add excitement to a relationship . I enjoy good conversation because it leads to better understanding and makes intimacy better.

During sex or a romantic evening, I prefer to listen to quiet romantic instrumentals. And I like to turn the lights down low but keep enough soft light to see my partner and enjoy watching her.

Sensuality - like touching and candles and massage - is wonderful prelude to sex. That is why I like extended foreplay before penetration. It heightens awareness and intimacy and enhances the whole sexual experience.

Most importantly, I never rush. I always take care of the needs of my partner first. When my partner has an orgasm, it excites me and makes me harder. And, I have great control. I don't allow myself to go until may partner is ready.

I enjoy giving and getting oral. I insist we both bathe before having sex so we both are fresh and ready. I practice safe sex but if we establish a strong bond and know we are safe and healthy, then I would consider natural sex.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Massage, extended foreplay

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Raquel Welch Lucy Liu <br><br>
Both are sexy and sensual

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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