"UPDATE" I am now up over 180lbs, spend six days a week in the gym, don't have the ripped abs yet, but hoping by March. Hi, this is Brad, from bradnholley, the wife has found a girlfriend for her, now we would like to find a friend for me. I am 5'6" about 165 lbs. work out a few days a week, love to ride my quad, shoot pool, bbq and have a few drinks now and then. I am easy to talk to, like to make women laugh, and am told I am a lot of fun. Yes I am 41, my pics are pretty current, some only about a month old, I currently have a GO-T, not the handlebar mustache, no grey in my hair, little on my chin, I have all my teeth, and my own car, oh and permission to be here, she thinks its hot.

My Ideal Person Preferably, I would like a woman who is married or in a relationship, preferably straight, but not a deal breaker. I like curves, and dark hair, blondes and red head's too, Hell I like women in general. Couples are great, we still play together too, but would really like to find somebody for me to hang out with at times. Not looking for exclusive, but I don't want a different girl for every night either, . I am straight, not into the BDSM stuff.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My favorite fantasies I have already done, so now I just
want to improve on them, I love 2 girls at the same time, have
had 3 girls once.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Oh MY! Salma Hayek, she is just HOT!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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