2009 Update: We're still the married couple next door. We're very secure and happy in our marriage, we love sex and like to experiment. We're more into your overall perality than we are in what you look like. We're very easy going, everyday regular folks. He is V-safe. It's HIM that is almost always online and we don't do the chat thing. We’re working hard on some lifestyle changes, like diet and exercise. We are professionals and insure and expect discretion. While looks and size don’t much matter, neat and clean does, along with the ability to speak in complete sentences. One of our adult ren has moved back home, so we need to play elsewhere.

My Ideal Person We like so many things, most of which are in the exhibitionist / voyeur category.
SHE SAYS: At the moment, I’d like a woman for him for a NSA fuck buddy while I sit back and watch. Someone to watch some porn with and play with him. If we’re comfortable enough, maybe you can have him on occasion without me.
I’d also like to blindfold him – maybe tie him to the bed - and then have another woman “show up”…..

HE SAYS: I love to blindfold her and “surprise” her with another person or two – looking for a woman - maybe a couple - who would like to watch me do the wife while she is blindfolded the entire time. She'll know she's being watched - but not by whom! Or, the active participation thing where she remains blindfolded while all three or four (more?) of us do her and each other.

He’s also interested in getting to know and trust a guy well enough to be a regular “mystery cock” – someone to invite over to the house on a recurring basis and find the wife (blindfolded?) in any one of several secured positions and do her. This would be on my terms.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Oh, so many! Lot's of exhibitionist/voyeuristic ones. And surprise fantasies: He likes to keep it mysterious for her, like taking her to a hotel room, stripping her naked, blindfolding her and then have a pre-arranged guest (M or F or both)knock at the door. All of this unknown to her until it happens.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Blindfolds, Light Bondage, Giving Oral Sex, Handcuffs/Shackles, Making Home "Movies", Mutual Masturbation, Receiving Oral Sex, Slave/Master, Threesomes, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Less about looks and more about attitude.

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
None

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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