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rm_BigTomNYC 46 / M
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rm_BigTomNYC 46/M
New York, New York
I currently live in Chelsea with a roommate who works nights and can only host then. But I can travel where you are too weekends or some daytimes. I am 100% drug and disease free and plan to stay that way. I'm a freelance photographer and chess enthusiast. I'm German/Polish but love Latin guys. I've got a moderately hairy chest but trim it down when it gets out of control. My butt and back are smooth though. I have an average sized thick cut cock. VERY ORAL (ie I Love Sucking Cock), and can bottom occasionally. I'm just looking for a casual hook up but if something else develops I'm open.

My Ideal Person I'm mostly attracted to average masculine guys. Not too much into overly tweezed and fashion following type guys. I prefer a guy who's comfortable in jeans and boots or sneakers who is just a run of the mill guy. Blue collar guys are hot and beefy, thick, chubby and bearish are hot too.

  • 46 / male
  • New York, New York, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men
Birthdate: July 6, 1976
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 9 in / 175-177 cm
Body Type: Ample
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Race: Caucasian
Male Endowment: Average/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: None
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