Sorry to be so wordy, but this needs to go right, it needs to be detailed, and those who don't invest in good planning are wasting their time, and someone Else's, but also setting themselves up for disappointment or disaster. We are new to actually doing it, but not new at all to thinking about it. We’ve finally decided to try it, meaning my wife has agreed to have sex with another man. I finally got that confirmation New Year's Night. Must wear a condom unless you can absolutely prove you are clean, proof meaning a recent test. or be incredibly convincing. Not looking for pushy, at all. What happens will happen, what won’t, wont. Wife is very good looking, I playfully call her "Super MILF", but we aren’t looking for a superstar, nice is 1st. If you are fairly handsome and are blessed below, it certainly wouldn’t hurt your chances. But again, average below, clean, and nice guy? Will be fine. Fantasy is to watch wife play with someone (or a couple) who can prove they are clean. Looking for a guy with control, or at least someone who can, just keep on going for round two. Would like to surprise my wife with it, and she is leaving it up to me. If you fit the bill, we would simply tell you what hotel we were going to be at, and when, sooner the better as I don't want her to loose her recent zeal.

My Ideal Person A super clean guy who fantasizes about fucking a guys wife while he watches. Control, not pushy. A guy who would be okay with a very flirty touchy night, or the ultimate, either way, he'd consider it a good night.