Like the title says I am an easy going guy. I am also a big guy, as in overweight, if that is a turn off for you I wish you luck on your continuing search. I work in a professional environment and as such discretion is huge deal to me; therefore I may not post any photos on here. I do have photos and will share them if I feel that things are headed in a promising direction. I am not looking for a relationship. I am not on here to fall in love. This is all about sex and fun and sex. Did I mention sex? Yes, definitely sex.

My Ideal Person Ideally I am looking for a woman that can accept that if we get together that it doesn't mean that I am going to available at her beck and call. It might be a one time thing or maybe not, who knows?
As a big guy, personal hygiene is super important and I am D/D free and I expect the same from any partner(s).
I enjoy the act of oral as part of foreplay both giving and receiving. To go along with my enjoyment of giving oral the wetter you get the better and squirters are a definite turn on. Obviously, vaginal penetration is assumed, I also enjoy anal on occasion. Hey sometimes you feel like a butt, sometimes you don't. If you like or are willing to try anal that's a bonus. Pain and humiliation are off-limits for me in an encounter. If an ongoing arrangement is established it might be fun to discuss videoing some encounters and posting them on-line for others to enjoy. But, that is more of a future thing that can be discussed if and when the time is right.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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