Im Penny . I'm 49 and am in a committed, loving, secure relationship. Mark and I are looking for a 3rd to have fun, and continue explore our sexuality and kinks with. We're a disease and drug free (420 def no problem), down to earth fun loving couple looking for a sexy like minded woman . We'd like to have drinks first to see if there's a connection and chemistry. If this interests you please get back to us. We're looking forward to hearing from you ladies!! No disrespect single guys or couples looking for full swap, but thats not what we are looking for. Good luck in your search :) If our woman is married, or attached, that would be ok. BTW, as you see, we are into BDSM, but do not necessarily have any intention of trying to involve our lady friend in that. However....It is a possibility, if we all agree....but thats all. By no means is that our intent ...just wanted to include those pics for....full disclosure, and fun ;) You dont need to be perfect, or a barbie..we certainly arent....just be sexy to us! That could be a woman of any age or race. We open minded, fun, friendly, and a little freaky ;) open to races...lets see where it goes!