Not looking for a serious relationship, just looking for the right woman willing to share me (alone) knowing I have a home life ... but my home life is much like living alone. I have the long hair. I grew a beard. I am more than "just" a cock. I have intelligence, eclectic taste, a great sense of humor (sometimes sick), and lots of good friends. I am looking for friends first and go from there dependent on our feeling and chemistry. It is not always just about sex, it is about connection. If you are not within 150 miles or an hour and a half drive away, please do not send flirts etc. I am between Chucktown, HHI, and Sav. It can't begin without a wink, a smile, a hello. And if nothing else, we've become friends. After all, no one is perfect, and beautiful friends come in all shapes, colors, and sizes. I enjoy cooking, movies, music, watching sports, sharing good times with friends, and making special memories with someone like you. The answers to the "other questions" are generalized answers, and IF you are interested in becoming friends and knowing details, I am afraid you will have to invest time and interest in me/us, and communicate to learn what I am all about. I am complex, eclectic in taste/like/dislikes and sometimes do not advertise what I am thinking.

My Ideal Person My ideals woman is smart, intuitive, giving without asking. Sexually, submissive and caring. She will know while she is submissive, her needs will also be filled. The one turnoff is smoking. I am looking for a friend who respects me and my boundaries, and I trust and respect theirs. A safe word in the relationship may be necessary. *wink*

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
you'll have to find out the old fashioned way...communicating
with me.

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