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lightningjames11 58 / M
"Lightning James"
Green Valley, Illinois, United States
 
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lightningjames11 58/M
Green Valley, Illinois
Introduction
I'm single 5'6' 165 lbs light brown hair and blue eyes. I'm fairly easy-going, flexible, and adapt to change. I enjoy a good workout, exercise or sex, especially one's that leave me exhausted and soaked in sweat. My goal is 150 mins of cardio and 2-3 weight training days a week if I'm lucky. I'm not much of a bar fly, but I enjoy drinking sweet wine like Moscato, mixed drinks like Margaritas, Sangrias, and Mojitos with a lady before during or after sex or not at all. Whatever my partner desires is fine with me. I'm open to suggestion as well as full of ideas when it comes to the bedroom. Let's get creative. Tell me what you want, what to do, what you need...I'll make it happen, or follow my lead and I'll tell you. I like to compromise and have fun taking turns, especially when one of us needs a rest. I will try any position once, experimental, kinky, or otherwise. I'm open to any licking, sucking, touching, teasing, tickling, fingering, playing, pinching, necking, nibbling, a little biting, and smacking your ass and calling you Sally if you'd like. Lol I'm just not too much into giving or receiving pain nor into bondage. I prefer us to concentrate on arousing, stimulating, and satisfying each other. I've never had a threesome nor have I been to an orgy, but possibly open to suggestion. I enjoy one-on-one sex. I'm a straight guy, NOT a bi-sexual man. I enjoy sex very much so, and if one night turns into more, anything is possible, and I welcome it if you do.

My Ideal Person I'm straight. I'm interested in exploring sex with a woman. I'm looking for someone who doesn't have to be discreet. I don't consider myself too kinky, but I'm open to trying kinky things if desirable and pleasurable. The taboos I have and not much into in the bedroom are pain, domination, submission, and bondage. Anal sex is fine, but impeccable hygiene is a must, especially licking. Voyeurism, exhibitionism, dressing up or role-playing, and public sex at the right moment can be very exciting. I'm not really into feet, pee, nor BDSM. As far as I'm concerned, the best place to have sex is in a big comfy cushy plush bed with plenty of pillows. Extramarital affairs don't interest me, and I'm not looking for any trouble. One sexual fantasy I've always had is living on an island with my lover for a month. My feelings on one-night stands are... if we don't have a second date, it probably wasn't meant to be, but if we do, all the merrier and would enjoy further dating you. During sex or a romantic evening, I can listen to just about any style of music, and you may even catch me singing. Lol Hope you do too. Sensuality- like touching, candles, and massage- is as important as sex. Foreplay is essential. I like lots of foreplay, not just going straight to penetration.

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What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Ozzy Osbourne, Led Zeppelin, AC/DC, Lynyrd Skynyrd, VanHalen,
Rush, Journey, Boston, Kiss, Aerosmith

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Michelle Pfieffer-eyes, smile, hair; Jennifer Lopez-face,
hair, body, ass; Cameron Diaz-eyes, smile, lips, body;
Jennifer Aniston- eyes, smile, body

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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Information
  • 58 / male
  • Green Valley, Illinois, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Women, Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: August 11, 1965
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 5 ft 6 in / 167-170 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Journeyman Wireman
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Christian
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English, 2yearsofSpanish
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: None
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