*** Profile being deactivated today... must email me ralic2111 at yahoo.... \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\***Standard Members CAN contact and correspond w/me... I just decided to dish out the little extra.... why not? So, don't hesitate... looking forward to hearing from you all*** Also, I travel every week, Thurs-Fri and sometimes Sat... to NYC, NJ and PA... so if u are anywhere relatively close, we can play... or make efforts to travel to each other...and that's why I sometimes have my profile listed as being in CT and sometimes in NY-NJ or PA. Last update, I want to list my number. .. please be responsible. It's not always on so leave TEXTS ONLY... in this way, I will get them all whenever I turn on the phone, but u might be passing nearby or in the mood... feel free to text in case I am free ; ... don't forget to identify yourself by stating that u are so and so (ID) from AFF. Also, email me!!! That is THE best way to keep in touch. Adult FriendFinder I am of a muscular build. Dark brown hair and eyes...very broad shoulders. Endowed with a thick 8+ inches when fully erect. Tan/olive complexion. I love ALL aspects of erotica...BDSM, traditional, fetishes, hard or soft sex...let me test your limits? I am kind in nature...but could be rough in play (if we agree)...I like it all and have a tremendous libido...VERY Discreet (I will respect your private space as I expect the same in return...my private life is no concern of anyone I meet, esp. for hedonistic purposes...meaning this is absolutely NSA and I absolutely need no drama), drug and STD-free. Also, I am very cautious with STD's...I wear condoms when fucking. No compromise on safety, whether yours or mines. It is more enjoyable for me knowing that I am safe. I do allow myself being sucked w/o a condom though it is up to u whether u want me to wear one or not and whether u want to take cum in the mouth if u don't want me to wear the condom (note the condom option is for oral only...when fucking, vaginal or anal, I wear condoms). Please be serious about meeting. I have been VERY straightforward and upfront so please be the same with me. As much as I expect an extreme amount of discretion, u are guarenteed the same same in return. Having said that, let me emphasize, I write for the purposes of meeting...I am a hedonist par excellence. So, if u have already made your mind that u will never meet, then PLEASE, do not respond. If u are unsure and would like to engage in a dialogue to get a feel of me with a possibility of meeting, then by all means, respond. Hope to see u soon...xxx ps..ladies, a couple of secrets which you already know but I want to affirm as axioms...asides having good hygiene, the greatest turn-ons are: 1) Sucking a cock..and sucking it like you are enjoying it as much, if not more than he. Blowing (for me at least), is the number one hardner of cocks...taking cum in mouth and swallowing are additional symbols of acceptance and intimacy. 2) Hearing you enjoy us while we engage in intercourse...in other words, if you normally sigh, moan and are inclined to scream and/or verbally express yourself, then DON'T stop it for any rea..let yourself go...the more the better...we LOVE hearing a woman being pleasured by us...sweats our ego but also is a tremendous turn-on. So don't hold back and let it go!! Verbal statements are the best..like "O MY GOD," "FUCK MEEE..." "FUCK MY PUSSY..." u know, there's a REA why they do it in the porn even if it sounds artificial..because they know men love it, so practice your moaning, sighing, verbal pronouncements and screaming... O, don't fake orgasms...but you know what? Feel free to fake screams and sounds....we prolly can't tell the difference and would love it too much to think about if you meant it..lol. K...if interested, I have a few video clips too. O...and I'm highly educated with diverse interests and hobbies. xxx

My Ideal Person ***Ok, in the interest of saving time, I will "flirt" with you. If you flirt back, put me on a hotlist or message me, I'll know you are real and will send a message so we could get the ball rolling***

I am VERY approachable...you'll be surprised. I hate mean people. That's not to say that in the act of sex, that I can't be sadistic especially if I am in my role as a Dom and/or Bull... or engaged in certain kinky fetish that requires rough play and sadism. Again and Again, people read EVERYTHING else into my profile, except the fact that I am first and foremost, a HEDONIST. I enjoy pleasures of the flesh... I believe that this is what this site is for, right? This is not e harmony right? So, I like ALL kinds of women... all sizes, shapes colors, races, religions, ethnicities, nationalities, shy, aggressive, levels of experience (from virgins to absolute sluts of the first order), housewives, recently married, engaged, single, students, mothers, baby-mommas, various professions, young (as long as u are legal) to senior citizens .... I have no qualms EXCEPT 2-3 things: 1) Discretion. 2) Being STD-free. 3) hygiene 4) not being obese or overweight without shape (which if u are, then u're probably obese) and this is not to be mean but it's just not my preference... I been with many women and plan to be with many many more.... just be respectful about things (u should be in general) and it'll be a good experience and a good life in general...
That leaves a TON of space for variety.. 90% of everyone that is curious about my profile would probably be of an interest to me... so do not be shy... DO message me... I have had so many insecure deals who never thought that I'd engage with them... eh? Why would I not? I am a hedonist...

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'm just first and foremost, a hedonist par excellence.
That means that sexual pleasure takes infinite forms..
it's why I have engaged and experienced and thus know
so much and continue to build and learn. There are soooooo
many role plays and fetishes that I have engaged in... way
too long to list.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Anyone half good looking is part of my hedonist equation.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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