I'm recently single after 10yrs plus. I am 5'11 and 173lbs in great shape. I work out a lot and run the occasional triathalon, 5k, mudder etc.. I need closeness and intimacy....I'm a relationship guy but right now, I just need someone that is OK with being really intimate like it's a deep close relationship and OK with things not being anywhere near monogamous. I am OK with once and fine with more if it works out. I'll never hound anyone after to come over....it's completely your call and your completely in control on that end.