godehnatty 58 / M
Hampton, Virginia, United States
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godehnatty 58/M
Hampton, Virginia
Let's have some stress-free fun. Everyone has baggage, just don't bring it here. Let the good times roll ... Laissez le bon temps rouler !
Handsome, educated, cultured and well traveled. Witty, great sense of humor, friendly, articulate and able to hold a conversation. DDF. I also work out. Guys, I am flattered by your messages but I am as straight as an arrow and I am not changing that. Ever. However, I do not mind being friends onsite and chatting with you on here. Ladies, I am diplomatic by default but I can be politely direct depending on the situation. Communication is key, especially on a site like this where civility can sometimes be put on the back burner. Not cool. I love foreplay (it is NOT overrated though it should not last for days ... LOL ... ) and I do give a mean massage. I love touching, cuddling, kissing, hugging and sharing tender moments too but I can turn the heat on when the need arises ... ;) ... The IM on here is so unreliable I do not use it. E-mailing me on here is the best way to initiate communication with me.

My Ideal Person Fun-loving woman of any ethnicity, shape or size although I must say I am sliiightly partial to the fuller figured or curvy woman ... so fun to hold ! You should be looking for stress-free chats, meets and then some if the chemistry is mutual.

If not, we can still be friends if you so desire, caveat being that there's no turmoil involved. That's what a gentleman entertains. I'm here to put a smile on your face - and mine as well; I'm not here to generate drama.

Should you want to try new things I am always open for discussion. Except for my hard limits shown below.

Read my profile in depth. Check out my blings. Do you see yourself in there ?

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Love middle aged / older women who know what they are looking
and are not afraid engage in mutually satisfying
with a great no strings attached friendship. The fantasy
is that we can almost read each other's minds and flow, one
with the other, making sparks fly whenever we meet, in
out of the bedroom ! Well, not so much a fantasy since it has
happened before ... We were lovers and friends ... B) ...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A dark back alley, A hotel room, No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 58 / male
  • Hampton, Virginia, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women
Birthdate: August 12, 1963
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Married
Height: 5 ft 8 in / 172-175 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Race: Black
Religion: Christian
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Prefer not to say/Prefer not to say
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Hair? What Hair?
Hair Length: Bald
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: None
My Trophy Case: