Solo Poly swinger & sapiosexual !! Live in ATX, but travel 🧳 for work frequently. Not a paid member anymore, but considering paying again to meet a desirable partner. If interested, please, look me up under the same name in the common chat apps, and let me know. Searching for a woman or couple for ONS /NSA encounters, but ideally for a FWB or GGG polyamorous relationship with the right person. Enjoy mFm, FmF, hotwifes, swinging swaps, GB and sensual kinky BDSM adventures. Plus like going to Hippie Hollow, camping, hiking, outdoors bars, restaurants patios, coffee shops, dancing ( 80s, 90s, Latin), and chilling with good company, occasionally. Hoping to meet REAL, laidback people with a sense of humor who actually want to have fun with an easy going, pleasant male to enjoy each others company without pressures or unrealistic expectation. Please, no transactional relationships, such as sugar babies, OnlyFans or Findom. Thank you for your interest in my long D...eh.. description! 😜

My Ideal Person Ideally, I would like to find a woman to be FWB, or a friendly couple to do pleasurable stuff in & out of the bedroom. Perhaps even have other adventures, including camping or going to swingers clubs, or nudist places, dancing, etc. If we have common interests without drama, no "drugs party & play", no Onlyfans shit, or other b.s.

With the right couple, I am also into 3some mFm, fMf, FFm, small gang bangs, and swingers group fun orgies ( if those exxxist).

Cyber affairs are fun, but I won't be interested unless we can eventually meet

"Independence is sexy," so no pay to play, e-hoes, sugar babies or dominatrix looking for a pay pig!

Again, my ideal person is a REAL woman or a couple who want to have fun, or a HOt WIFE/ straight Stag or submissive couple who actually wants to have pleasurable encounters.

So, if you have read so far, and want get in "touch", you can do so through most of the popular chat apps at Dan Tolargo or tolargo4u....with no pressures, drama, or strings attached (unless it is part of role play), and no unrealistic expectations.

I am:
+ Straight, Passionate, Pleasing, Adventurous, Sapiosexual, Mixed Race CARAMEL Swirl Latino (black Yoruba/white Ibero/native Taino) from the Caribbean who travels weekly for several months/long term work projects.
+ Searching for a cis-gender woman or couple for fun sexual encounters with no pressure or unrealistic expectations....
+ A "pleaser," normal and straight, sensual & gentle, but know how to be "kinky & rough" with a woman who enjoys BDSM, easy going, non-clingy, love humor, GGG lover (Dan Savage definition), and willing do what it takes to provide a satisfying experience...
+ Also direct & polite, discreet, respectful of rules & boundaries, and not a fake or a flake like many others in Heated Affairs.
+ Not interested at all in gay men cruising to suck "straight" cock, e-hoes, cam bots, scammers, transexuals, sugar babies, flakes, fakes, women "looking for marriage" in a sex site, dominatrix, or judgemental prudes.

Thank you for reading my profile!

Dan Tolargo 4u

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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