Could I be too optimistic...? BBW looking for friends with benefits. Unmarried please! Someone I can call whenever I'm in the mood sexually or even just for a movie, NOT looking for one-nighters. I'd like someone who I actually LIKE, can enjoy a joke or two with during "recuperation phase" or some conversation over a glass of wine, and who is also looking for an ongoing thing. I don't have the intent of a relationship, but if that situation presented itself I'm not adverse to it either. Willing to spend enough time to get to know you and see if we "click" before indulging physically. I just want the benefits and friendship = fun companionship but no drama. A sensual friend, emphasis on friend. I'm hopeful to find someone interested in occasionally doing social things outside of the bedroom. Want to catch a movie? Want to do a cruise but don't want to go alone or with a huge group of nonsexual buddies? Yeah, me either. Let's plan something.

My Ideal Person My ideal person is fun, sensual, available, enjoys much more than a quickie, hopefully well endowed. Open to whatever floats our mutual boat but those times we aren't on the same page - no means no, for both of us. Cleanliness should be as important to you as it is to me. Social drinking is just fine, drug and disease free please - I am, and I'd like to keep it that way.

If you can never receive a phone call, can never host our hook-ups, and are constantly worried I might text you at the wrong time, or your partner might find an email... then you officially have toooo much drama for me! Sorry... but I want to keep it simple - two people who actually like each others personality who make the adult choice to enjoy the physical benefits of an all grown up arrangement. I don't want to be anyone's dirty secret or marriage counselor.
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What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Respectful and considerate

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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