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chefman1949 73 / M
"Easy going horny mature bi male looking for discreet fun."
Belvidere, Illinois, United States
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chefman1949 73/M
Belvidere, Illinois
I pride myself in a job well done.I enjoy music,gardening,and just being outdoors. Looking for mature males to enjoy good times together. Here is who I am, I live by the golden rule, Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. I ask that you treat me with respect and I will treat you with respect in return. I was extremely abused as a . I couldn't do anything right in his eyes, he would come in the house and for no rea at all would back hand me in the mouth and send me flying across the room. I longed to have his love and I never received it. I am the per I am today because of that abuse and want someone who can want me and love me for the per I am. I feel I have a lot to offer to the right guy.

My Ideal Person Looking for honest mature males who don't play games. I want to get to know guys that want me for who I am, I treat guys with respect and i want to be treated the same way. I am a down to earth guy looking for discreet pleasures.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 73 / male
  • Belvidere, Illinois, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men or Couples (2 men)
Birthdate: September 12, 1949
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Married
Height: 5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Associate degree (2 years college)
Occupation: Material tech
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Christian
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Long/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Silver
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
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