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carissaandpaul 69 / 69 / C
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Portland, Oregon, United States
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carissaandpaul 69/C
Portland, Oregon
Havin' a good time...
Note: We had covid in April of 2022. Since then Paul's hair has turned gray. Any pictures of him with dark hair were taken before April 2022. Often chat. Looking for other fun, happy, easy going-couples. Low pressure sexy fun. No drama, fun at whatever pace suits the mood. Full swap is awesome but not a requirement. No expectations. Friends with benefits. Flirty, teasing, and arousing good times. Send us a note and say hi. Let's meet, have a bite/drink, and see if we connect.

My Ideal Person Our experiences include couples, women alone, men alone, couples and small groups - enjoy the rush and excitement of it all and we both have a lot of sexual energy to share! We enjoy going to Sauvie Island, listening to live music, dancing, dining out, hiking, going to the beach, and generally having a good time. If you are of a similar outlook with similar interests, let's get in touch.

SINGLE MEN: Single guys are not out of the question, but Carissa is quite particular. You should be nice looking, sexy, intelligent, friendly, polite. You should have a sense of humor and a bit of humility. And you should be able to carry on a conversation...and carry out a seduction.

Our Blog: Click on My Blog tab above.
Our group: Click on Friends of Carissa and Paul.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Her: Making love behind a waterfall, in the mountains.
Him: At the Superbowl, at halftime, at the 50-yard line.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 69/69 / Couple (man/woman)
  • Portland, Oregon, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-sexual / Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women) or Couples (2 men)
Marital Status: Married
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: Happy with what we have
Our Trophy Case:
Birthdate: January 1, 1953 January 1, 1953
Travels to: Palm Springs, California, United States
Hometown: Portland, Oregon New Orleans, Louisiana
Relocate?: No No
Height: 5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm 5 ft 4 in
Body Type: Average Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Education: Some grad school Some grad school
Race: Caucasian Caucasian
Religion: Other Not applicable
Male Endowment: Average/Average N/A
Circumcised: No N/A
Bra Size: N/A 36 / 80 C
Hair Color: Brown Brown
Hair Length: Medium Medium
Eye Color: Blue Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Either None