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blerd4u 41 / M
"looking for NSA fun, lets see what happens. NOT GAY OR BI"
Manassas, Virginia, United States
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Member Since: December 7, 2019

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blerd4u 41/M
Manassas, Virginia
Let see if I can get more real women to talk to, on my last month as a paid member. About to go to free. If you like what you see, hit me up
i'm a nice guy that gets along with everyone, happy demeanor. bit of a nerdy jock. love to learn, video games and marvel comics but still athletic. i started a BBQ catering company and love modding cars. single again after a long term mistake, finally able to explore my sexual wants and needs. looking to experience what i've been missing. Update /22/ i finally a day walker (Blade reference) feels so nice to have evenings and full weekends with everyone else. this note is needed.....................I AM NOT GAY OR BI kkiikk dyn2liv

My Ideal Person a woman or couple only.. no single Bi or gay men, to match my freaky side and activity level. and a ark sense of humor. always want to meet first if possible, drinks and good convo break the ice and see if we mesh
kkiikk Dyn2liv

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 41 / male
  • Manassas, Virginia, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: September 29, 1981
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Single
Height: 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: Prefer not to say
Education: Some college
Occupation: IT Support
Race: Black
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: No
Want Children: Maybe
Male Endowment: Long/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Black
Hair Length: Bald
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: None
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