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aimstoplease81 41 / M
"I aim to please :)"
chicago, Illinois, United States
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aimstoplease81 41/M
chicago, Illinois
I'm a 33 year old male in the city of chicago. I have two college degrees, but right now I'm playing in a couple of local bands and trying to make a go of it at the moment which doesn't leave too much time for a long term thing. I'm very easygoing, open minded, and definitely a lot of fun :). I would love to meet someone that is intelligent and sensual and very open minded. I'm looking for new experiences and would love to meet a woman who could help me to explore more things sexually. I'm definitely experienced, but would love to broaden my horizons with a smart and sexual woman who wouldn't mind having repeat encounters if the chemistry is there. Age is just a number in my book, and I believe looks say almost nothing about a per's sensuality. I'm open to all ages and races and sizes, and think anyone can be attractive in their own unique way. That being said I do have a think for older women with curves :).

My Ideal Person Anyone adventurous and spontaneous. Someone who doesn't take things so seriously. Age, race, and all that don't matter either. I believe all women have a certain sexuality all their own.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 41 / male
  • chicago, Illinois, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: May 3, 1981
Travels to: ft. myers, United States
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Education: Some grad school
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Have Children: No
Want Children: Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: None