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abcaper 48 / M
"Can I help you fulfill some fantasies? Can you help me fulfill mine? "
In the mountains., Alberta, Canada
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abcaper 48/M
In the mountains., Alberta , Canada
Ultimately looking for the next love of my life but in no hurry. In the meantime I am looking for occasional NSA FWB that can host in Calgary and or visit me in the mountains. While I can, I hope to tic a few boxes on my sexual bucket list, namely, GROUP SEX, MORE THAN 3 PEOPLE. THREESOME, BOTH MFM (HETEROSEXUAL), AND MFF. SEX WITH AN OLDER WOMAN (MORE THAN 10 YEARS). Start with those 4 and go from there. I will try almost anything once. Also, if you would like a good photographer to take some sexy photos of you for free, let me know. Trying to build a portfolio and happy to have a model agreement in place stating that any photos taken will be property of the model, not the photographer. Don't be afraid to say hi, it all starts there.

My Ideal Person I am a photographer so someone who is comfortable in front of the camera would be nice. Apart from that I am open to just about anything. Ask me and I will tell you all you want to know.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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  • 48 / male
  • In the mountains., Alberta, Canada
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Prefer not to say
Looking For:  Women
Birthdate: August 21, 1974
Marital Status: Separated
Height: 177-180 cm
Body Type: A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Associate degree (2 years college)
Occupation: Director
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: Yes. We sometimes live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Average/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Blonde
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: None