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VioletSteel 45 / 44 / C
"New to the OK and looking for like minded individuals."
South Okanagan, British Columbia, Canada
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Last Visit: More than 3 months
Member Since: December 30, 2017

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VioletSteel 45/C
South Okanagan, British Columbia , Canada
We are full Swap Swingers who have been in the lifestyle together for 10 years. We are new to the OK and are looking for couples/individuals to make connections with and hopefully have a bit of fun. She has a unique look, on the funky side, with and average body type. He has a casual appearance, with a bit extra padding. We are not the athletic type of couple, we tend to lean more towards the geek life but are very social. She has been in the lifestyle since a ager and identifies as a pan-sexual. We look for chemistry with people that we can hopefully continue to connect with even if it's just social. We are looking for like minded people so we can relax and be ourselves out here in the conservative Okanagan. Also.. not interested in anyone who's partners "do their own thing," aka are not aware that you are on AFF.

My Ideal Person People who are full of humour, easy going, respectful and looking for more than a 1 night bang.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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  • 45/44 / Couple (man/woman)
  • South Okanagan, British Columbia, Canada
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women) or Trans
Marital Status: Married
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English
Want Children: Happy with what we have
Our Trophy Case:
Birthdate: September 18, 1977 October 18, 1978
Relocate?: No No
Height: 177-180 cm 165-167 cm
Body Type: A little extra padding Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs I don't use drugs
Education: Some college Some college
Occupation: IT Accounting
Race: Caucasian Caucasian
Religion: Not applicable Atheist
Male Endowment: Average/Average N/A
Circumcised: Yes N/A
Bra Size: N/A 38 / 85 B
Hair Color: Brown Other Hair Color
Hair Length: Short Short
Eye Color: Blue Green
Glasses or Contacts: Contacts Glasses