Not looking for a bf or one night stands either, but do enjoy interesting conversations and friendship. I am not looking to be tied to just one per right now, so seeing someone once a month or once every two months is a good frequency for me. Also please have a face pic, or send me one if you message me. I will not be sharing any x-rated pics, and do believe that some mystery is good. If you choose to put yourself out there for millions to see, that's up to you. UPDATE: I have moved my pics to 'friends only' to keep things more discreet. I am very active on this site, and the more I use it, the more chance I will run into someone who knows people in my family or work, etc. Also, please check out my blog on my profile.

My Ideal Person I like friends who are intelligent, sarcastic, feisty, playful, and can have conversations about various topics. Confidence and independence are also important. I am not looking for a bf or someone to cling, and I will not be doing the same. I would like to see the person once every 1-2 months or so, in general.