Are you the right one for me? I am looking to have an intimate long-term relationship with an intelligent, gentle, romantic, non-smoker, non-married, non-controlling man of 31 to 61. Age doesn't really matter, but the closer in age he is to me, the more we may have in common. Education also doesn't matter if he is intellectual and interesting. I don't want a man I can't carry a conversation with. I want a man who will be home at night as I crave lots of attention. I am not looking for a one night stand. I desire to be with a man who really appreciates me. I am a white, soon to be single female who left my hubby in 2010. I just completed my masters degree and use my skills to volunteer teach English as a second language to Hispanic ladies in my town. I am outgoing, open minded, and well educated with a very high sex drive. I do not have , but love them, so if you have them, that would be great! I am a plus size woman: 5'8, 255 lbs, thus the name: uravgplussizewom. I want to be upfront and honest immediately. In spite of my weight, I have never had any complaints in the bedroom. I love sex very much and enjoy toys. I love to be fisted as long as your gentle, no tearing me please. I also enjoy having full body massages and being licked everywhere. I do not like anal and will say no to it, so please don't ask. Some of my favorite positions are missionary and reverse cowgirl. I am very loud and vocal. If you are looking for a commitment, you may be looking for me. I am not willing to drive to you, so don’t ask. No married men or men with girlfriends please. Be willing to take me out to dinner and a movie and we’ll talk to see where we will head from there.