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Tempered_id 46 / M
"Sex positive, geeky intimacy coach seeks like-minded partner(s?)"
Charlottesville, Virginia, United States
 
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Tempered_id 46/M
Charlottesville, Virginia
Introduction
Geeky, ethically non-monogamous/polyamorous. Divorced and co-parenting,, looking for the right mix of quirky, nerdy, light-hearted, and soulful. I currently have two long term partners and date casually. I love open and fluid relationships that allow me to experiment...on all the levels ;). I love getting out in nature, creating things with my hands, cooking, and meeting people that challenge me intellectually. I'm a dad, circus performer, erotic model, and sex & intimacy coach/teacher. Life is never dull! Open sexual expression is very important to me, whatever shape it takes. I'm very into exploring explicitly sexy scenarios with the right people--I'm insatiable, creative, and kinky. I love flirting and just being with people that I see as a part of my "tribe." I'm a whole per & would really like to find multi-faceted people for friendship, adventuring, and snuggles...AND hot, yummy sex.

My Ideal Person I would love to find folks that are sexually open, curious, and ready to explore. Geeky, soulful, and mentally/spiritually engaged people go to the top of the list! Apparently I'm kinky/fringe-y, though I wouldn't have always identified myself that way. Want to act out a hot fantasy? There's a good chance I'm game. Want to explore Tantra together? Yes please! Want to geek out about relationship scripts/consent/sexual mores? HELL YEAH! Above all else, I like partners to be open, honest, and communicate well.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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Information
  • 46 / male
  • Charlottesville, Virginia, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: May 11, 1977
Travels to: indianapolis, Indiana, United States
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Master's degree
Occupation: Intimacy coach
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Spiritual
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Long/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Long
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
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