Hello! I'm a broadly curious man looking for some fun with someone that I can actually talk to. I'm not looking for a one-night stand; instead, I want an ongoing connection with someone who'd like to get together on a regular basis to serve both social and sensual needs. Being comfortable talking with a partner is important to me. I like chatting about many subjects, even better if I can learn something along the way. Talking about our likes, dislikes, and hidden desires is the only way to make sure that we actually enjoy time together. Talking about the world, new discoveries, and life in general is good, too. I have several fantasies about situations that I would never actually want in real life... but that doesn't keep them from being fun dirty-talk. Simple sex is fun, but tossing in a bit of role-play or focused sensuality can really enhance the experience. Separate (or at least separable) from sex, I can be both sadist and masochist, but don't know what to do as dom or sub. I love a good flogging (either giving or receiving), with thud being far nicer than sting. Yes, I am bisexual. Just due to the nature of society, I've had more experience with women than men. I'm a equal-opportunity admirer of all forms, though, whether or not I ever get the opportunity to express that. I'm spiritual without being religious. I have firm opinions on politics (on the liberal side, no surprise for western Washington), but am happy to have a respectful debate and have been known to change my mind when given a good argument. I am vaccinated, and expect my friends to be vaccinated, too. My wife and I have been in a poly relationship for over 20 years, and are still deeply devoted to one another. In that time, both of us have had other partners, and we lived as an MFM triad for several years, too. Relationship drama is not offered or enjoyed.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a long-term FWB situation, but not necessarily a high-intensity relationship. Someone who is is interested spending some time together, playing games, watching a movie, or just talking. Life is more than just the bedroom, and that applies to all the people I meet, too.

I also want someone who is self-sufficient. Sometimes life gets busy, and we don't have as much time for poly relationships as we might like. While we may be sad and regret that situation when it happens, it should NOT be grounds for significant drama.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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