I overshare unimportant things, and I am extremely private with personal things; thoughts, feelings, etc. Sometimes I like to open up about my desires and fantasies, sometimes not so much. Women and men turn me on in entirely different ways. I love being serviced and worshipped. I have a voyeuristic streak. I can be sweet or cruel or both. I have been told I would make a fantastic submissive. Those people are clearly reading me wrong. This is going to come off stuck up as hell, but it is what it is, and I give no fucks. If you feel like you want to talk to me, just say hi or something equally innocuous. Full stop. Do not comment on my tits or my mouth or any other part of me and what you want to do to it or it to do to you. That will get you ignored or told off. Sexy, sweetie, baby, honey, hun, darlin, beautiful, baby girl, or any such words that diminish being a woman are unacceptable, as are unsolicited photos of any of your body parts, or asking to share yourself slapping your meat around either in pictures or on camera. I promise you, any woman on this site who wants to see something like that or be spoken to in that manner will let you know immediately. There is absolutely no need to posit all of that nonsense to every single woman you encounter. That shit is gross, juvenile, unimaginative, and a waste of my time. I am attached. My person is fantastic. I love him and am very much in love with him. We have many of the same sexual interests, but I think mine lean more to the kinky side. It has been a long time since we have had any play partners. I read. A lot. Probably too much. Reality is so disappointing, so I escape it in books. I also love gamingz Cards, board games, video games, pen and paper RPGs, etc. I am fat. Very fat. Lift my belly to get to my pussy fat. I am not degrading myself or inviting you to degrade me. I am simply informing. I will not apologize for my size. I will not let you try to diminish who I am. If fat is your kink or your fetish, that is great for you, but do not expect me to play into it. That will not be happening. Smoking is gross, and drugs of any kind are a hard no for me. Please do not try to change my mind. You will be ignored and blocked. I am neurospicy. My mental health is shit, and I tend to isolate. Sometimes I just drop all communication for seemingly no reason, but I mean, the reason is me. I was an AFF member many years ago and made a lot of fantastic connections. I met great hookups, fuck buddies, platonic friends, and my husband here. Hopefully, the vibe now is as good as it was then. (Update: It most definitely is not. This place is shit now.) I miss female partners. I especially miss sucking titties. If there are any ladies out there whod love to have your titties sucked, NSA, no sex, no hanging out, just meeting up to worship your titties is totally on the table. No joke. Hit me up.

My Ideal Person Everyone is ideal. Almost all people have something positive and attractive about them. I would just like to make connections. Be kind. Be real. Smoking and drugs are a dealbreaker, though.