Messages here rarely work, site is supper glitchy. You may know me as Blissfulkitty on other sites, maybe try messaging me there? Looking for Tops/Doms who are intelligent, skilled, some experience, creative and ideally with a sadistic streak. As for me, who I am? I am still working on defining that. It changes ever so slightly as I continue my journey here. At the core though, I am fairly confident in calling myself a submissive masochist, or maybe more of a masochistic submissive. What I dislike? Over excitement or over eagerness. Just gross, it’s a huge turn off. Unsolicited messages of all the nasty things you’ll do to me or acting like you’re my Dom in the first message, No thanks. If you do send me a message with nothing more than Hi, Hey or Hello, likely I will just ignore you, unless you’re the 20th message like then in days, then I will likely troll you a bit because I am frustrated and now I just want to have my own fun. If your message is poorly written, full of spelling errors and gross grammatical errors, I will most definitely ignore you (although you very likely did not read this far, so not sure why I am bothering to say that here). Vanilla me I am a huge reader, for pleasure. I love to curl up with a book and a blanket and just lose myself. I do find it irritating however if someone tries to hold a conversation with me while I am deep in a book, I probably won’t even hear you for the first 5 minutes your talking. I am always cold (hence the blanket required when reading). When I sleep, I cocoon deep in my blankets, not to keep the monsters out, just to ensure no draft can come in. I love storms! The more intense the more satisfied I am. When it is possible, I will drive into a storm just to see it and hear it better. I’m sure my neighbors think I’m crazy, as standing outside in heavy rain is therapeutic to me. This is the only time I am okay with being cold but do hate that it makes my hair go frizzy. Bucket list includes going on a storm chasing tour through tornado alley. Music, anything goes, my playlists are a mess because I truly enjoy most styles of music. I will never be able to tell you the proper name of the song, the artist or band correctly. And guaranteed when I sing along, I will get the words wrong every time. Same goes for movies, anything goes, and I will never remember the name of the movie I watched last week or who the actor(s) were. Sharks!!! Fascinating and beautiful! Shark week is my favorite! Also, second bucket list item, swimming naked with the sharks.