Well I sure have learned a lot in the last three years since getting divorced. Free at last, free at last!! What I've learned is that the only things any human being owes to any other human being are Honesty, Courtesy, and Fairness. Expecting anything else leads to heartache, but if you keep those three things in mind, no one gets hurt. If you're seeing multiple people at the same time, that's cool, but all of them need to know what the score is, and everyone needs to accept it. Adulthood and honesty are SO liberating!! I have been introduced to the concept of polyamory. Took me a long time to really understand it and let it work. But it's a les which, once learned, changes your life for the better in so many ways. This is not to say that if the right, absolutely perfect woman were to cross my path, and she felt I was right for her, and we explored for awhile and decided that we wanted to be exclusive with each other, that it's out the question. But that is no longer what I'm looking for, what I need, or what I expect. I am a reader. I am a music aficianado. I bike, I swim, and I laugh at people arguing politics on the internet. I have no interest in professional sports of any kind, ergo I do not have a "favorite team". Don't own a single sports team jersey or hat. I would rather connect with someone intellectually over coffee or beer or wine, then move on into the bedroom, then pick up a woman at a bar. It's been said to me by one of my current partners that the best way to get a woman's legs spread wide is to caress her brain. Works for me.

이상형: Someone on the same intellectual level as I am.

Someone who understands my references, and if they're unsure about it, will go Google it for themselves and go "AH HA!!!"

Someone with a sharp sense of humor.

Someone who doesn't get jealous, who understands that "love" isn't meat in meat.

It doesn't matter if this someone is going through a tough time and having problems currently, as long as they're trying to work through their issues and are engaged in learning and growth.

Someone with their own opinions that is still open to hearing and discussing the opinions of others.

And someone with big tits. Did I mention big tits???

(Mostly, someone who groks that last sentence and understands the subtext.)

좋아하는 음악가나 밴드는?:
Elvis Costello, Gang Of Four, John Lennon, Creedence,
Kinks, Rodney Crowell, Eurhythmics, Sparks

어떤 타입의 성적 활동이 흥분되나요?:
오럴섹스 주기, 오럴섹스 받기, 토이(바이브레이터/딜도/등.), 3인 섹스, 상호 자위행위, 음식 플레이, 홈 무비 제작, 관조주의, 마사지

섹스 파트너를 찾을때 어떤 요인이 가장 중요한가요?:
섹스 경험, 육체적 매력, 비밀스런 관계를 유지할 수 있는가, 탐닉에 개방적인가, 섹스 취향, 섹스에 대해 자유롭게 대화하고 새로운 것을 시도하는 것을 좋아하는가

유명인사와 섹스를 하는 것에 대한 환상을 가져 본 적이 있나요? 그렇다면 누구이며 왜 그들인가요?:
My fantasies have always been about real people I've
met, and since the only celebrity I've ever met has
been Larry Fine of the Three Stooges ---- no.

사이버 섹스 경험이 있나요?:
시도해 봤지만 사이버 섹스와 똑같지는 않습니다

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