Well I sure have learned a lot in the last three years since getting divorced. Free at last, free at last!! What I've learned is that the only things any human being owes to any other human being are Honesty, Courtesy, and Fairness. Expecting anything else leads to heartache, but if you keep those three things in mind, no one gets hurt. If you're seeing multiple people at the same time, that's cool, but all of them need to know what the score is, and everyone needs to accept it. Adulthood and honesty are SO liberating!! I have been introduced to the concept of polyamory. Took me a long time to really understand it and let it work. But it's a les which, once learned, changes your life for the better in so many ways. This is not to say that if the right, absolutely perfect woman were to cross my path, and she felt I was right for her, and we explored for awhile and decided that we wanted to be exclusive with each other, that it's out the question. But that is no longer what I'm looking for, what I need, or what I expect. I am a reader. I am a music aficianado. I bike, I swim, and I laugh at people arguing politics on the internet. I have no interest in professional sports of any kind, ergo I do not have a "favorite team". Don't own a single sports team jersey or hat. I would rather connect with someone intellectually over coffee or beer or wine, then move on into the bedroom, then pick up a woman at a bar. It's been said to me by one of my current partners that the best way to get a woman's legs spread wide is to caress her brain. Works for me.

Der ideale Mensch für mich Someone on the same intellectual level as I am.

Someone who understands my references, and if they're unsure about it, will go Google it for themselves and go "AH HA!!!"

Someone with a sharp sense of humor.

Someone who doesn't get jealous, who understands that "love" isn't meat in meat.

It doesn't matter if this someone is going through a tough time and having problems currently, as long as they're trying to work through their issues and are engaged in learning and growth.

Someone with their own opinions that is still open to hearing and discussing the opinions of others.

And someone with big tits. Did I mention big tits???

(Mostly, someone who groks that last sentence and understands the subtext.)

Welche sind deine Lieblingsmusiker oder -bands?:
Elvis Costello, Gang Of Four, John Lennon, Creedence,
Kinks, Rodney Crowell, Eurhythmics, Sparks

Welche sexuellen Aktivitäten erregen dich?:
Oralverkehr geben, Oralverkehr empfangen, Sexspielzeuge (Vibratoren, Dildos etc.), Dreier, Gemeinsames Masturbieren, Spiele mit Essen, Eigene "Filme" erstellen, Voyeurismus, Massagen

Welche Eigenschaften sind für dich am wichtigsten wenn du nach einem Sexpartner suchst?:
Sexuelle Erfahrung, Körperliche Anziehungskraft, Die Fähigkeit diskret zu sein, Offen gegenüber Dreiecksbeziehung und/oder Orgien, Sexueller Appetit, Bereitschaft alles frei zu diskutieren und zu versuchen

Hast du schon mal davon geträumt mit einer berühmten Persönlichkeit Sex zu haben? Mit wem? Was reizt dich an dieser Person?:
My fantasies have always been about real people I've
met, and since the only celebrity I've ever met has
been Larry Fine of the Three Stooges ---- no.

Hattest du schonmal Cybersex?:
Ich habe es ausprobiert, aber es ist nicht das gleiche.

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