I'm Steve, 35 years old, have worked in restaurants for the last 12 years and so I fancy myself 'good with people'. About 3 years ago I was enjoying the friends-with-benefits thing with a fascinating woman in Arkansas who introduced me to the Swinger Scene (awesome) but now I'm back here in Houston and don't really know a lot of people except for my two best friends. I would really love getting to know some cool people here, as I'm definitely getting bored & lonely! (lol) When writing I can be a little expressive (aka long-winded) but I figure you're here to see if I seem interesting before calling me up, so I'd better save us both the trouble and let you get a good look before you go on the next step. Besides, it's nice to already know someone a little bit before you meet the first time right? I'm about to say something clichéish and sentimental, but it's nonetheless true. Lets face it; there are a lot of lonely people out there who are incredible people; have so much to give; disconnected from others who would love to meet them; yet they wander the globe looking for that connection, completely passing each other by like ships in the night. I'm going out there to find such like-minded people. Speaking simply, I'm trying to find people who enjoy sex and the beauty that it signifies who aren't necessarily looking for a long-term relationship and the complications that may come with it. If I meet someone who really captures my imagination and heart, then that's another deal, but I'm not actively pursuing anything permanent. I'm a very passionate lover, sensitive and thoughtful. I instinctively put others needs before my own, and I'm patient. I love pleasing my partner and it brings me more satisfaction to do so than anything else. I'm clean as a whistle, completely drug & disease-free, and I'm looking for a partner who is just as clean, health-wise. Don't mind someone enjoying a little 'Green' of course. This is, after all, the 90's...

My Ideal Person I think that women from all walks of life are beautiful, and I usually find something about any type of woman that turns me on. Race simply means different shades on the canvas!

What I'm mainly interested in is a woman that knows what she wants and takes pleasure from sharing herself with someone that she feels she can trust with the gift of her sexuality.

Someone who wants to either try new things, or is at least passionate about the things that she already likes doing with her partner.

Someone who has a good sense of humor, who can enjoy a good conversation over a glass of wine and who can appreciate the value of expanding sex from a simple one-night-stand to a friendship with benefits. (Not to say that I'm against one-night-stands; they have their merits; but it'd be nice to stop looking and to focus on those nice repeat visits where we don't have to worry about trying to move on to the 'next catch'.)

If this doesn't describe you, let's talk anyway. What could it hurt?

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Skip Ewing, Darius Rucker, Tool, Chevelle, Jeff Bates

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
One of my most frequent fantasies is having a woman ride
my face Cowgirl style. <br><br>
I love the idea of sex in a public place. <br><br>
Skinny Dipping. <br><br>
Joining a Bisexual female couple in bed.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Rimming, Candle Wax, Threesomes, Massage, Being bitten, or just holding someone

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really. I don't idolize celebrities. If I could
pick one out of a hat though, I'd love to have Diane Lane
in my bed... or more like in her villa under the Tuscan sun.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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