I am a professional (white collar) worker, divorced (since 2009), father of three. I love watching and attending sporting events, especially football, and I am a runner (5k and half-marathon distances mostly) and weightlifter. Ideally, I am looking for the next great love of my life, but I am okay with NSA/FWB arrangements, especially if you look like Natalie Portman or Mila Kunis :D. If you are looking for a hung male partner, then I am probably not for you. I am anatomically proportional in that regard. No, that doesn't mean small, it means average. I am told I am handsome and have an athletic, muscular body, so if you are looking for handsome, well-groomed (neatly trimmed, not hairless), and athletic, I might be the play partner you are looking for. In the past, my profile listed that I was a couple with 39lawless. We are still friends, but are no longer dating each other. I enjoyed swinging while we were dating/engaged, and would be open to that again if the right opportunity presents itself, but that's no longer a priority. Sexually, I am a submissive pleasure giver whose favorite activity is cunnilingus. Close after that would rank the intimate skin on skin contact and french kissing of missionary intercourse, while my eyes devour your beautiful face. I have enjoyed being a second man in a threesome or moresome in the past and am still open to playing that role. I am hetero: I am bi-friendly, but not bisexual. I travel occasionally on business and also have the means to travel for pleasure, so wherever you are, drop me an email. I might be in your area sometime soon, either by accident or on purpose. I am friends with a gorgeous bi-curious female who is interested in learning more about the swinging life style. If you are interested in either MFM or FFM play with us, let me know, and I will let the Pixie Goddess know of your interest.

My Ideal Person My ideal woman would have similar interests and background to me, and be around my age (plus or minus 10 years, roughly). By the way, I am REALLY 53, that's not "code" for 60

But more about her! She would be intelligent, educated (at least some college), and professional career (likely white collar). She would love sports, live an active life style, and probably would have been an athlete in high school or college. She would also be adventurous and open-minded sexually. She likes to be very clean before she gets dirty, because I will want to spend a lot of time kissing and licking every inch of her body.

As far as body types, I am most turned on by pale skin, athletic, and curvy. However, there really isn't much of a drop off in my attraction level for other body types, etc.

I don't do drugs, but I am 420 tolerant. I drink very occasionally. I am disease free (tested recently). So my ideal woman would more or less match those criteria, as well. Just smile at me and rub your soft feminine fingers across my chin, and I'm all yours!

If you are a single or divorced woman living near Bedford, IN, and you are on here looking for a long term relationship, then I hope you will contact me for a date to see if we hit it off.

Beyond that, I am also interested in NSA relationships, as well. If you are a secure male/female couple or single woman, any age, living within a couple of hours of Bedford, and you are looking for a man for fun sex (see my likes and dislikes above to let you know what I'm about), then I hope you'll consider me. I will come to you, or I can host if you prefer to travel. I spend a lot of time in or around Louisville, so if you are near there, please contact me.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
For the longest time (since I was a teenager actually!),
I have had a fantasy about being a "sex toy" in
a competition to determine the "Hottest Sex Goddess
in the World". There would be 16 women competing for
the title (double elimination of course!). Two women would
compete against each other at a time (like a basketball
or tennis tournament), with the winner being the woman
who could make their man come first. I am one of about 20 men
used as "toys." <br><br> The
women pick the man they want to use as their "toy"
(basically "inspecting" the men they believe
they can get off the quickest). When I am picked, myself
and another man are tied naked to beds and wheeled into a
ring (like a boxing ring), where the two lady contestants
have their way with us. Once the competition starts, the
woman is allowed to do anything to the man that she wants
- massages, oral, vaginal, hand jobs, etc. She can also
wear anything (or nothing!) as she sees fit, and she can
use lube (but no other "sex toys". <br><br>
There is also incentive for the man not to come. If he does,
he is eliminated from use as a "toy" for the rest
of the tournament. If he did not come, he was placed back
in the pool of "toys."

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A hotel room, sauna room at the gym

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage, Sensual Massage, Tantric (at least I'd like to learn)!

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I spent most of my late teens and early twenties thinking
about all the things I would do to Madonna if I ever got the
chance. Janet Jackson figures prominently in many fantasies I've had since about
1985, too. But oddly enough, it's been a while since
I really thought about either of those ladies in an elaborate
fantasy, so I'm going to go to my third choice, the adult
movie star Raylene. <br><br> Wow, do I love
that woman's curves! She has long red hair, 5-7 (probably a little tall for me), with perfect
pale skin, very large breasts (but not really out of line
with the incredibly curvaceous body she possesses). She
has long legs, a beautiful little "landing strip"
just above her clitoris, and very large pink labia. When
she has sex on camera and she's REALLY loving it, I notice
that her eyes often roll back in her head.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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