Older millennial (formerly jackie_reynard) giving this site another try. Single and poly sistah searching for good times and casual encounters, sans male bullshit. A closet voyeur who doesn't mind taking a naughty photo/video or two. Open to FwB arrangements with the right person(s). Folks not in the NYC area need not apply unless you're planning to hit the city; in that case, we can plan ahead for some fun! UPDATE: I'm fully-vaxxed against COVID-19, so I'm down to meeting and hooking up in person. With other fully-vaxxed folks, tho. I WILL ASK FOR PROOF. I still like having healthy lungs, and I do not humor science denialism and other forms of willful stupidity.

My Ideal Person My thoughts on one-night stands: they are awesome with the right person(s). You need to be:

- disease & drug-free. That includes COVID-19. Be fully-vaxxed with proof, I WILL ASK FOR IT. I always carry my CDC Vaxx Card, be ready to present yours
- live in NYC, or can at least meet in Manhattan
- be serious about IRL meet-ups and can host

You need to be honest about your intentions fully: wanting to meet, wanting just a one-time meetup or more, loss of interest, etc. "Casual" does not mean "callous".

Ghosting at any point and time will not be tolerated, you will be BLOCKED and unfriended if I had friended you. It's a major reason I deleted my last Heated Affairs account, and this being the 2nd try, I have very little patience for games and lack of emotional intelligence.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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