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NoVA_Hedonist 44 / M
"Geeky, kinky hedonist"
Alexandria, Virginia, United States
 
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Member Since: August 28, 2017

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NoVA_Hedonist 44/M
Alexandria, Virginia
I'm a swinker. Love it
Introduction
**under some construction & updates** An update for 2023. Back again after a hiatus of...a while. I'm married and ENM, but this profile is for me and I play solo (I do have partners that may be interested in group play, but that's a later us conversation). My wife and I keep each other up to date on all our shenanigans and if things go well, you'll likely meet her and potentially other partners. Again, a later us conversation. I'm snipped, GGG, kinda kinky, and a lot slutty. Outside of shenanigans, I'm enjoying a re-interest in photography, I'm a big tech nerd, I love Marvel, sometimes DC (mostly their excellent animated movies), Star Wars, Star Trek, most things geeky appeal to me. What I'm looking for....good question. I say FWB because that gets the closest. Ideally, we'd see each other once a week or so and get take out, cuddle, maybe have sex, maybe a dip in the hot tub. Or (covid permitting) go out to eat, take a walk around Old Town. Maybe you'll let me practice some photography skills on you. The relationship I have in mind is more than just a casual fuck buddy or NSA/ONS; it's more than that but less than a joint bank account. Hopefully that makes sense. I do try to reply to all messages sent my way, even if it's just a thank you but no thank you.

My Ideal Person I have a type, definitely. But, I don't like to exclude people that don't fit into that type because I think anyone can have fun together if there's the right mix of chemistry and attraction.

Some basics: You should really be a liberal or leftist. If you're moderate, maybe. If you're apolitical or to the right, it's just not going to happen.

Ideally someone that shares some kinks, geeky interests, and an overall enjoyment of what life has to offer is the best attractor.

Information
  • 44 / male
  • Alexandria, Virginia, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-curious
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Couples (2 women) or Trans
Birthdate: August 9, 1979
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Married
Height: 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: IT Guy
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Atheist
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Length: Bald
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
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