First and foremost: If you're only concerned about looks, endowment and other physical, superficial aspects then please move on from our profile, as you won't find what you're looking for here. We are 100% real. However, if you're above the superficial trappings and are looking for great companionship with some fantastic extra benefits, then please read on. We are a loving married couple in North Port. I'm 45, She's 43. Both overweight, but carry it well, and working on loosing. We are looking for friends to join our love circle. We are open to any race, age, size, etc. Very open and laid back couple. But both more of stay at home kinda people. So, it makes it hard to meet new friends. We would love to find someone or a couple who would connect on a friendship level, plus enjoy things of an adult nature. This can be a female or male who is interested in one or both of us. But we favor people who want to spend time with both of us. Finding someone to have random sex with is really not our thing. We find that a friendship makes sex better. I mean.. even though I'm overweight, and a bit anti-social hermit at times, even I can find someone who just wants to have sex…. Finding someone for sex only is easy. Finding someone with whom you can build a friendship with.. someone who cares if you are here in this world or not,… that seems to be a rare and very special thing that is really hard for us to find! We are both very similar in what we like. Both work in the computer field! Him: I'm a geek who never grew up! I mean.. I still enjoy things like Fairly Odd Parents if that gives you any indication! Lol I work as a computer tech in Sarasota. Big TV and movie fan. Love shows with a running plot.. True Blood, Weeds, Game of Thrones, Spartacus are a few examples. Re-watching Sopranos right now. Into gaming… Love MMPORGs.. Anybody with a current World of Warcraft account goes to the top of the list, lol. Play Spore, Warcraft, Sims, etc. 420 friendly. Well.. that's not really honest.. We live a 420 life! Wake n' bake is a daily activity for me! lol I feel that as time goes on, I'm turning into that typical stoner. Now.. what was I talking about....? If your not into the 420 lifestyle, I'm not sure how well we would connect. I mean.. at least with another stoner, you can tell the same stories over and over... and they always sound like a new story for a stoner! Artsy crafty kinda guy.. I have a ceramic kiln, and do various painting and sculpting…. A couple of weeks ago, I did some tie dye of various items.... So, I have plenty of hobbies to fill my time, but looking for a new best friend with benefits. I think because I feel that I never grew up, we can connect with anybody from 18 to our age. Her: First, I am not a girly girl, I am a woman! Big difference! I am a geek. There is no other way to say it! I love computers, computer games, etc. Love movies and TV; we have a sizable collection of movies on DVD as well as most of our favorite TV shows in series on DVD. We're anxiously awaiting the start of the summer and fall TV seas, as most of our favorites come back: True Blood, Weeds, ETC. I'm an animal lover, and we have three cats and they are the best to come home to! I am generally fun and outgoing, but take a bit to warm up. Once I get there, there's no stopping me! Love to just hang around, watching movies, playing Guitar Hero, board games, even attempting to get into the lovely pool we have...I just think 80 degrees is cold! Oh and 420 happy!! When I'm looking for new "beneficial" friends, I'm looking for someone I can have a good time with because it's just not about sex. Having benefit friends means being able to go out to the movies or something, or just hang out and taking things as they come. We only have one rule. You must have online photos before we meet. I mean.. we are all computer savvy enough to create a profile on an internet site. If you send us a message, and you don't have any photos, or didn't bother to send a photo, then more than likely we will not respond. Otherwise we will do our best to respond politely! So, if you are lonely, sitting at home enjoying a good smoke, and spending the day in front of the TV, why not do it with a couple who will enjoy your company and perhaps you will enjoy spending part of the day in bed! You won't know until you try!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
being watched by my partner while another takes pleasure
in my body....so hot!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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