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MrHarHar 58 / M
"Nice to meet you guys"
Basehor, Kansas, United States
 
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MrHarHar 58/M
Basehor, Kansas
What's happening?
Introduction
Bi married (separated, living apart for 3 years, no drama), clean, mild to wild, sub type bottom/versatile. Disease free, you must be too! Always shower clean inside and out. Not into kissing other guys. Message me anytime, I will try to answer any messages, even if it is a "no thanks". Keep in mind I am an unpaid member so even though you can message me, I can't usually message you. Usually but not exclusively bottom. Not limited by preferences listed on profile. I deleted this paragraph because it was not allowed...ah well. I really want to try:: DP, blindfold , role play, playing total sub, MMF, and whatever you say.

My Ideal Person Ideal person would be a MW couple where he is a bi top and she is in charge. Second would be a Dom top who does also does not like degradation and is not into jackhammers.
Third would be either of the above when the bring a friend, a blindfold, or an experimental open minded attitude towards enhancements of all kinds.

and especially anyone who can tell me what they want me to do in a clear, direct, assertive way. someone who does not hold back in telling me how they want it done, and one who shows appreciation with simple acknowledgement of my effort following instruction, and praise when deserved.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 58 / male
  • Basehor, Kansas, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 men) or Trans
Birthdate: December 1, 1965
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Separated
Height: 5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I use some recreational drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: retired'ish
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Long/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Blonde
Hair Length: Receding
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: None
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