MisfitJohn138 39 / M
"If one could only calmly step into the crucible and happily and eagerly await for every impurity to be burned away. "
Granger, Iowa, United States
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MisfitJohn138 39/M
Granger, Iowa
This week has been a tad much. Streaming bath with epsome salt and toys here I cum!
What can I say, 39 and single is incredibly liberating esp. after spending so many years of my life trying to fit my self to other peoples desires. I am what I am, nothing more and nothing less. I filled with intense passion and lust yet there is much more to me than just that. I enjoy talking to people and sharing about my life, and fantasies, I find it helps me navigate my moral compass more easily. My sexual desires and fantasies are as eclectic as my taste in music and let me tell you that varies greatly. Aside from sex I am greatly interested in all things space, I do enjoy going out but would consider my self more of a home body, I love to watch movies and play video games, and nothing pleases me more than making a delirious meal together before and evening of pleasure.

My Ideal Person Someone, who when they meet me are genuine, not telling me what that believe I want to hear. After a time it gets too hard to keep it up, then castles in the sand crumble. I am just as guilty of this in my past, thankfully not near as much in my present. Someone who actually work with me, get dirty and dinged up, not just tell me about how they know how you work. My ideal person contains a light within themselves, that at the end of the day I find my self wanting to just be a better person. Someone who brings out the best of me simply by being real and transparent. And…… well let’s be honest, I’m sucker for a fat ass, a pretty smile and a sense of humor.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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  • 39 / male
  • Granger, Iowa, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Prefer not to say
Looking For:  Women or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: August 6, 1982
Relocate?: Yes
Marital Status: Single
Height: 6 ft 2 in / 187-190 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a heavy smoker
Drinking: Prefer not to say
Drugs: Prefer not to say
Education: Associate degree (2 years college)
Occupation: Auto Mechanic
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Have Children: Yes. We sometimes live together.
Want Children: Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Salt and Pepper
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: None
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