Well all I can say is that I might not be everyone's cuppa tea. Though not perfect, I absolutely love the way I look. Things I love about ME : 1. I am taller than most Asian. Standing at 174cm without heels. 2. I got sensitive eyes (quoting Adam Sandler) LOL! 3. Some would call it fat, flabby, etc but I call it voluptuous. I love my curves. 4. I got a really sweet smile. :) 5. I may look unfriendly but once I warm up, I can talk all night long. =)) 6. I do have a sharp mind... and tongue. I am not afraid to speak my mind. So when I tell u to buzz off, I expect u to take a step back and move along.

My Ideal Person I am not expecting much from this website but I do prefer certain attributes in a man.

If you are :
1. Single (not married or attached)
2. Tall (I love the empowering feel of tall men. At least 178cm and above.)
3. Smart and funny (who doesn't like that?)
4. Can appreciate a woman of plus size nature (only for those who enjoy holding on to more flesh than bones)
5. Can handle a woman who kinda knows what she wants and rather ambitious at it.
6. I prefer lighter skinned men (had bad experiences with the darker versions, if you know what I meant). This means NO INDIANS and BLACKS. It is just my preference, and nothing to do with racial means.
7. If you are below 24 years old, I appreciate if u don't even bother to chat with me. Though age is just a number, I dislike being a babysitter or a nanny. Only REAL men to apply.
8. I can't stand whiners and pushovers.
9. I prefer brains than brawns. If you have both, that is fantastic. But please stop hard selling me about the size of your dick. That doesn't classify as intellectual conversation. Appreciate a man who is gentleman as well as know how to treat a woman.
10. Again, I must emphasize that I am a BBW. So stop telling me I got a great body or sexy curves when you have not yet met me. That is so an OMG moment!