flatrock38 then add on hot male....... OK, Here is the deal... I am looking for a cool friend with benefits NSA......, A boy friend, partner or even the love of my life if he happens by... Who knows what life brings... I am caucasian and in my 40'es, height and weight proportionate with a nice average build. VGL and masculine. Educated professional with a good job. Great sense of humour, love to laugh and carry on, life is too short not to have fun. Hopeless romantic here ...lol Big outdoors fan, camping, fishing, hiking also Art, History and Culture. Love to travel. I am very comfortable going to the symphony or camping hundreds of miles in the wilderness. Love to be very passionate in bed, Sex for me it is an erotic art form of mutual pleasure, A trio of mind, body and spirit. . .... Relatively new to being gay, not new to being intimate with men, just new to exploring a relationship with a man. At the moment I am not out, for reas I am not going to get in to here, but I will be out when I move and I am free and open when I travel. Of course finding the right man for a LTR that shares the same life style is the ultimate goal. You should be masculine, a guy who acts, walks and talks like a man (my turn on). Athletic is a big plus. Some one who is finically and emotional secure. I am easy going and well grounded, you should be too. Please be between 28 to 48 or so and it helps if your nice to look at... lol I am not in my profile picture, it is a representation of a Warm Loving Embrase... HIV NEG, STD free, you be too, Always play safe... Just a nice guy, looking for a nice guy. Peace, CARPE DIEM PS: Open to any where in Newfoundland or world wide for that matter... lol A Bit of Humor FIVE RULES FOR A HAPPY GAY LIFE 1. It's important to have a man who helps at home, who cooks from time to time, cleans up and has a job. 2. It's important to have a man who can make you laugh. 3. It's important to have a man who you can trust and who doesn't lie to you. 4. It's important to have a man who is good in bed and who likes to be with you. 5. It's very, very, very important that these four men don't know each other!!