Since we were new to this, it was a learning experience. And now we’re going through another one We’re not here to commit suicide, or become dumpsters and petri dishes. We like sex. We just have to be responsible to ourselves. For men we can go to dinner and if you are kind and understanding and you take care of yourself and willing to be responsible. Then there’s a very good chance we can play. No kissing, no exchange of body fluids. You will get sucked on, and plenty of intercourse., But that will be done with a rubber. How do you say we’re not looking for numbers, just real quality people. People who are not in a hurry.We are not a drive-through. There’s personal things we have to discuss, and we also don’t like being stood up. Some people think you can make a date on this site, without their phone number. Get real. We are seasoned to this bullshit. If you don’t give your phone number forget it. We don’t do groups, we like intimacy, one on one. In the same room. All of these pictures that you see of the people down below that say there are friends, we have never met them. Out of two years on this site only three we met. And they were single men. That came and went.