Hello there! I am a Soldier who moved to Virginia not long before the whole COVID lockdown. I work in a field that has allowed me to become a very good listener. I'm told "Virginia is for Lovers," at least that's what the license plates say. Right up front: I'm vanilla-married, but I'd like to experience a bit more than basic missionary position before I'm too old to enjoy it. I have a pretty wide variety of interests / curiosities. I'll note that all of them are heterosexual and most are either egalitarian or have me in a lead/dominant role. Having fun means both partners should have fun, so I ensure my partner reaches (a) finish line before I concern myself reaching the end myself. Please drop me a line and say "Hello." I'm trying to take the step from observer to participant, so I'd like to start building a network of friends and like-minded AFFers. If you need to, I can also be reached as aikiscot at the most popular search engine's e-mail app.